A spotlight is unforgiving after you’re 19. It’s true. Spotlights show everything – every flaw, every wrinkle, every insecurity being carefully disguised in the shadows of the every day world. Reflected light – shared light – is always more attractive and forgiving. It softens the edges, allowing shadows to blend into light without harsh interruptions. Blend...it’s a literally beautiful word and idea that sounds like what it is. Say it slowly – b-l-e-n-d. A blend is a mixture